mad in pursuit
Strangled in Tangles of Beads
On the walls of my study and in the hallway are Lucite cases
displaying the
very best necklaces. A narrow set of shelves in my study (see left)
contains a stack of 12 clear Rubber-Maid boxes of necklaces classified by origin: Latin
America, Native American, Africa- Indigneous, Africa- Trade Beads, Africa- Special, East/South
Asia- Non-Tribal, Southeast Asia- Tribal, Tibet, Central Asia-Ethnic,
Central Asia/Mideast-Ancient. Then there
is Modern, which I just divided up into Vintage and Unusual/Funky. Another set of narrow shelves (below right) contains boxes of loose
beads and beading supplies for all the necklaces I keep promising to make for gifts. Then there are the stacks of slim Riker boxes you
know the kind: covered in black paper, lined with polyester batting, glass
lid, locked with long pins through cover and base (below
left). I have 35 of those at the moment, filled with necklaces too good to throw into
Zip-Loc bags in a Rubber-Maid box. There are loose beads displayed on a mirror tile on a shelf: ancient
treasures from Indonesia and South It's out of control. I used to catalog my treasures in a
database before tucking them away, but I paused for a moment -- and
then it was too late. A month ago I made the mistake of dragging home a big box of
my mother-in-law's jewelry the leftovers after we cleaned out her apartment and
after J's daughter,
daughter-in-law, and ex-wife picked out anything half-way valuable or
attractive. That box was the straw that broke the camel's back. When I started pulling things out of the box to see what treasures I might find, suddenly my little study was f-u-l-l full. As much as I love the ancient, multi-cultural resonance of all the people who'd made, handled, and loved my beads, the addition of all this unsorted junk, spread out on the floor because there was no place else, shorted out my psychic circuits.
Olive had cherished it all. Everything was sorted and labeled and boxed. Then her mind faded and her body was moved to a nursing home. And so we tossed her life away. We like to think we're saving our possessions for someone, someone who will appreciate the intrinsic value of the trappings of our existence after we're gone. No one does. There are cultures who bury the dead person's possessions with them. Maybe that has less to do with beliefs about the afterlife than the survivors wanting the crap out of the house. I faced her tangled pile of necklaces and bracelets and bric-a-brac.
I wanted it all to vanish, but now I couldn't throw it away. There was
just too much of Olive wound through the strands. Among the dull department store colors, a familiar sheen caught my eye: big pearly beads, with no pretensions. I looked closer, shook them out of the mess, and yanked them apart to a glorious flood of memories pop beads! Suddenly, I was 8 years old again, wrapped in
luscious strands of pinks and blues and greens. My first
bead collection -- a big fad about the same time hula hoops were all
the rage. Oh my God, I coveted them, couldn't get enough. And my favorites
were pearly ones just like these. I remember standing on the porch
of my aunt's house in north St. Louis, wrapped in pop beads, teasing my white-haired
cousin Jimmy, and picking at my pearly beads. To my horror my absolute
horror the pearl paint peeled off to reveal a pallid plastic core.
I was crushed. What did I
think? That they were real pearls? My passion for them cooled. I look around at my own treasures and wonder who will be tossing what into the black plastic trash bags of my future. 3.19.00/4.07.02 |